Re: tire time =(
Yes, I'd replace all 4. You're lucky to get that much out of Forteras.
A deep wax job isn't going to do anything about swirled paint. You'll want a machine polish. Finding a reputable detailer who won't do more damage, could be difficult. Don't look on CL. Ask around, or search/ask on detailing forums for someone in your area.
2011 Laredo X in White Gold: QT1, V6, Tow Package, Sunroof, Mopar Step Bars/Slush Mats, 20% Tint, Airaid Intake.