Re: WHY is it so hard to find the right set of wheels!!!!!
Lay a straight edge across your rim, on the backside. Measure from the flat surface where the lugs bolt on, to the straight edge. That's your backspacing/offset. The less backspace, the further the wheels stick out. With the backspace, rim width/diameter & lug pattern numbers, you should be able to find most anything you want. HTH
1994 ZJ, 3.5", 33" Trxus MT, HP D30 4.56, XJ D44 4.56 w/Detroit
2004 WJ Ltd. Stock QuadraDrive 235 70R17 Cooper AT3