Thanks for your wonderful attitude and patience
You get what you pay for on forums. Sometimes people will know exactly how to help you out, other times people will have no special insight into your specific problem.
If you want someone to drop what they are doing and fix your problem for you at a moment's notice take it to a repair shop and pay someone.
It's not a question of good vs. bad forums, but rather having the right person read your post at the right time.
If you had more than a single post before you passed judgement on this forum, you would see, in general everyone here is very nice and willing to help a fellow jeep enthusiast out.