figured i would update this one more time,
so in my search to cross out all stupid stuff that could be causing my blinker to go crazy i brought out my old tail lights thinking maybe the leds are goin bad or something. plugged in the old circuit board, blinker was still crazy.
next i was like well even though the front blinker seems to work sometimes maybe its that (i remember when my rear brake light bulb went out it would still light with the running lights but not when you hit the brake, the blinker seemed to light with the running lights but not when i turned on the blinker.)
i swapped it out with my old blinker light and pow it stopped blinking like crazy amazing. the story gets better though lol get in my car that night of course it starts doing it again
, i notice the bulb is out though, so i figure hmmm those old bulbs were super old could have just burnt out.
next day i decide to switch the passenger bulb with the drivers bulb, again no crazy blinker works fine. weird part is i put the bulb that was in the driver side that seemed to originally cause all these problems (not the old one that burnt out that went into the trash) into the passenger headlight and it works fine weirdddddddddddddddddd
but since i have done this which has been about a week now i havent had any issues so im just gonna thank the jeep gods on this one and hope that it doesnt start happening again. I have no clue why the apparently broken bulb would work on the other side suggestions are always great, thanks for the help guys who replied to this.