k well i figured out why it was going off..
theres a alarm switch in teh door lock, and it is going out, supposedly it's pretty common according to the dealer. but its 103 for the switch alone.
but it still works, i just have to wait a second for the interior lights to turn on before i open the door. it litterally is only half a second so no big deal for now. thanks for the idea's though guys.
p.s. i got a remote so it doesn't even matter now 75$ later