I'd try a torx socket that barely fits in. Heat it first and often until it moves. Torx which are generally only good for stripping out do come in handy with these from time to time. Had to use this trick on my WK last weekend.
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i bought a set of pipe nipple fittings from ebay and got it to bite enought to torq it out, thanks everyone for the ideas and advice im gonna go to autozone tomarrow and get a oil pan drain plug that is the same size so i can throw a socket on it