IMHO I'd go with the Rough Country lift, Bilstein HD struts and shocks and Spidertrax 1.5" Wheel spacers
I've had Rancho 9000's (in a 98 F150) and I broke 2 of them. The Bilsteins are a MUCH better ride.
I drove my Jeep around for a week before the spacers, and I'd much rather have the spacers! Looks better and gives you a wider stance.
Good luck brotherin