Cattivo, all we are trying to do is help you get your HIDs sorted. So just hear us out if you want to get it fixed.
The relay harness is added to a HID kit to get a direct current from the 12v vehicle battery. Avoiding any loss in current coming from the vehicles wire setup, factory made for halogen
The relay is nothing more but a switch, that allow you to control the current going from 12v source to the HIDs. On or Off....that's it!
So what you have in your kit is nothing more than a resistance...some "anti flickering" device. Obviously it doesn't do anything good.
Unfortunately there are no miracle plug and play solutions for HID kits atm. So simply do it like the rest of us did....whom have working HIDs.
Delete that thing and add a standard relay harness.
Good luck and keep us posted!