Well, it's been a long road, but I finally have my Jeep exactly how I want it. 2010, QDII, 5.7L, Limited
What I expected to fix when I bought it at 72K miles:
-Fluids for diffs/transmission/transfer case
What I ended up doing in addition:
Lower control arms ($1800 estimate, got it done for $600 or so including parts)
Transmission front pump main seal ($WARRANTY$ $175 for rental car though while at the dealership).
Anyway, just put some Destination LE2 tires on today, and it makes me smile. It is now doing EXACTLY what I want it to, and doing it well. I think it looks good, also, although that's personal of course.