Hello Eagleone,
I have a 2014 GC Laredo with similar issues. Shifts hard enough to feel it in the brake pedal when stopping. Also had it actually lunge forward in park when pushing ignition on or off or taking my foot off the brake. Started acting up at 5,000 miles. Clunks and bumps shifting between P, R and D. Been to the dealer, they couldn't find anything, going back again next week. Plus U-connect won't remember my phone, "no fix at present." Very frustrated, I haven't even made a payment on the vehicle yet. Traded in a Ford Escape that had a broken valve spring 7,000 miles over warranty. Glad I bought the warranty that provides a rental car. Will take it in weekly if necessary until something gets fixed.